As much as all women love romance and want it to be showered upon us I think sometimes we need to be the instigators, the one that demonstrates that it is mostly the simple things that we are after. By doing this, we give our men the confidence that we WILL notice their efforts and we WON’T jump down their necks and tell them all the ways they could have done it better.
I am very blessed to have a husband that has always been a giver of flowers. What’s more is he usually gives them for no particular reason. I love this about him. However as much as I love the flowers and his thoughtfulness I have often told him that the most romantic thing he could do for me is house work without being asked. Over the ten years that we have been married he has improved in this regard and even more so over the last several months as we prepare to have our first baby.
So for one of my to my husband for our anniversary I wanted to give my husband a romantic gift also stretched my creative muscles. This gift also tested out my memory banks as I created a small gift box of memories. The MEMORY BOX was a small gift box filled with squares cards, each with a hand written statement and drawing as a visual representation of what was written. The statements on the cards included ‘the places we have visited’ and cryptic comments like ‘when cricketers wore purple’. The best memory cards were those that were cryptic and depicted obscure memories. These caused the most laughs as we went through the box card by card reminiscing.
This was a really simple gift, however it did take time and thought. It is both time and thought that I think are the key elements of ROMANCE. Being generous with both of these things demonstrates to those in our world that they are valued. We can so easily take those we love for granted.
So, show that someone special in your life that you value them and do something romantic for them, but don’t forget to give your creative muscles a work out at the same time.